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  • Discover the secrets of natural attraction that work for guys who aren’t tall, dark, handsome or rich…
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Why Hire A Dating Coach?

A good dating coach can mean the difference between meeting, attracting & winning a relationship with the women of your dreams or settling for women who are below your standards.

When you hire a dating coach, you’re not left all on your own to face rejection * to figure out what women want.

Your dating coach will provide you with those insights so that you can approach more confidently and follow proven steps to make your initial interactions go smoothly.

The secret to getting good with women is not more information, it’s not “going on a journey” and it’s not simply “being yourself” (even though that’s what conventional wisdom loves to say).

The secret to getting good with women is through exposure and practice and that’s exactly what a trained dating coach from The Attractive Man can give you.

Most of our student’s started with no clue when approaching and attracting women..

With our expert coaches, you’re taken to the best spots in the Big Apple to meet and talk to women.

Not just that, with each interaction you’re going to receive essential feedback so that you come away from the experience a completely changed man (in a good way).

Now, if you’re on the fence about hiring a dating coach in New York, consider what you need in your dating life right now.

  • Do you need help with approaching confidently?
  • Do you want to get over an ex-girlfriend or one-itis?
  • Or are you caught up on how to get out of the friend zone?

Maybe you need help designing your lifestyle so that you’re simply exposed to more women in a setting where you’re naturally seen for all the value you have.

Whatever your situation, when you work with one of our dating coaches in New York you’ll be able to get one-on-one feedback on what your hangups are from professionals who live and breathe attraction every single day of their professional lives…

Whether you want to get a girlfriend or simply date-around, the first place to start is The Attractive Man email list.

There, we offer free tips through our newsletter. You can sign up here.

If you’re ready to get yourself a New York Dating Coach from the Attractive Man right away, check out our bootcamp schedules here.

And if you want to discover what you should look for in a dating coach and why our coaches are some of the best in the world, then read on!

3 Things You Must Look For In a Dating Coach
(In New York & Beyond!)

1. Relatability & Connection

A good dating coach is your confidant, your wing-man and your trusted guide for getting your dating life handled. You can’t just expect that a one-size-fits-all approach is going to do the trick.

To get the best results, we highly recommend you absorb the content & blog posts from the dating coach you’re thinking of hiring before you make the financial commitment.

Look, if you’re going to spend a few thousand dollars on improving this area of your life, you should be sure that the coach is the right fit for you, your personality, your style & your unique concerns.

So as you watch the content, ask yourself this question:

a. Can I imagine myself enjoying a conversation with this guy?

If you can imagine yourself talking with, laughing with, and really opening up to the person you’re considering hiring, then you’ve found the right one.

Let’s face it: to overcome your issues with attracting women, you’re going to have to open up about your insecurities & shortcomings as a man.

Your coach is going to be there for you, side by side in the trenches helping you to own those issues & overcome them as a man.

Will you be able to do that if the chemistry between you and your dating coach isn’t right?

Of course not.

That’s why it’s so important that you feel comfortable with the person you choose.

The best way to make sure you will have that comfort is by watching their content on Youtube or their website.

As you can see, our coaches post weekly on our Youtube channel & blog. We have over 200 videos of dating advice for you to go through so you can see first hand how our coaches can help you.

Watch one of our most popular videos below:

  1. Value (Plain & Simple)

When you are thinking of hiring a dating coach, ask yourself, “Can I imagine myself getting valuable coaching from this guy?”

While rapport and comfort will help you open up and address the issues you’re dealing with in dating, the next thing you want to be sure of is that your coach’s guidance is actually going to move you towards your romantic goals.

A great measuring stick for this question is whether or not you actually benefit from their content before you make a financial investment.

Nowadays there are more dating advice channels on Youtube than you can possibly imagine.

Everybody has a different perspective on how to improve this area of your life. Even your friends, family and relatives might have an opinion (hey, maybe they should become dating coaches! 😉

The most important aspect of hiring a dating coach (especially when you’re going into the big city) is that they are capable of actually coaching you to success.

At The Attractive Man we have hundreds of testimonials from our clients in New York & abroad who have successfully gotten numbers, dates & relationships with the women they used to dream about thanks to our coaching.

How are we able to do this?

3. A Proven Process

At the Attractive Man we use something you can’t get anywhere else. A proven process where we train you in a controlled environment before going out “into the field”.

What does that process look like?

First it involves getting to know you and your unique challenges & goals.

We want to make sure every single student feels like they can trust us 100% with this area of your life.

Then, the training begins with something we call “model work”

While we can’t reveal all the details here, the gist is that you will be looking directly into the eyes of a 10/10 model saying things you never thought you would say to a woman…

Meanwhile you will be feeling a lot of emotions release & come up.

It’s different from anything else you’ve likely experienced before.

The result? When you go out ‘into the field’ you’re better able to hold your presence and interact with women in a masculine way.

Look, what I’m trying to say…

In New York, there’s something for everyone.

And our Dating Coaches will show you the parts of the city that suit your goals.

But be warned.

We REFUSE To Work With Guys who:

 Want to hurt women.

 Want to lie to women.

 Want to manipulate women.

 Want to sleep with other guys’ girlfriends and wives.

We believe women are amazing and fascinating, and deserving of courtesy and respect.

And we conduct all of our coaching from this starting point.

So we expect you to conduct your behaviour in the same manner.

Another important point I want to bring up… This is NOT for the faint of heart.

We’re dedicated to real, everlasting, and life changing results.

So excuses, bad attitudes, and “I can’t do it” will simply NOT fly.

Don’t expect to show up and learn a bunch of theory then do nothing with it.

No, our coaches will tell you everything you need to get started…

Then they’ll put you out there in front of real women…

In real places…

With real results.

We expect full participation.

Just ask our previous students what
happens when you listen to us…

  • “I got very intimate with a woman thanks to our previous phone consultation! I just think you are super cool and know your stuff!”~ Sandy
  • “I used to be shy when it got to talking to girls, and I used to not know how to start and end such conversations with girls until Matt helped me to build up the skills step by step!”~ Ryan,
  • “After coaching with Matt Artisan, I can easily go out during the day or night and start a conversation with a woman I am attracted to, tease her, have fun, and oftentimes get a number. The key to coaching is getting a teacher that understands what stage you are at and then teaching you what’s necessary to progress. Matt Artisan does this phenomenally well and really understands where you are at. He works with you to pinpoint what you really need help with to get your game to the next level.” ~ Kumar,

Note: These guys were NOT rockstars, male models, A-List Actors or top athletes. There were average looking guys who finally said “enough is enough”, took action and stayed committed.

So now you know just how diverse and exciting the New York Dating scene is…

Let’s talk about what a New York Dating Coach can do for you.

Things like:

  • Getting rid of fear and anxiety when you’re with a woman
  • How to be a woman’s modern day prince charming
  • The right way to spark attraction and chemistry with women
  • The honest way to establish a long term relationship
  • How to fearlessly get her phone number – this one is shockingly easy
  • How to text message a girl and ask her out
  • The surefire way to end the date in your apartment, house, or hotel room… which guarantees a second date
  • How to make your caring girlfriend loyal to nobody else but YOU
  • YOUR way to be her best lover

And the best part…

Not only will our Coach show you this stuff…

You’ll see it in action with your own eyes as you go out and meet women at the beaches, shopping malls, bars, coffee shops.

Oh, and before I forget…

When you’re out on the town meeting women:

  • You’ll receive instant infield feedback of all of your approaches
  • You will know the wrong and right things you’re doing because all your interactions will be recorded
  • Your dating coach would listen every time you approach girls because you will be wearing a mic
  • Your dating coach would demo for you so you could see precisely how to do it the right way
  • You would go to the environments where YOU wish to meet girls

… and of course we’re not going to leave you hanging after the coaching…

So there’ll be weekly phone coaching and lots of follow-up support to make sure you stay on track.

Check Out These Videos
From Our Previous Students…

“I feel like I can get a date whenever I want now”

He used to look at women and not do anything. Then he approached more women than he ever did in his whole life.

“Women are ‘selling themselves’ to me now.”

“I beat my anxiety on the first night and now I talk to girls whenever I want”

From a shy guy who couldn’t hold conversations, to bringing home a beautiful woman in just 7 days.

He brought THREE girls home in 9 days of training.

“I threw my approach anxiety out the window.”

“I made her eyes light up”

He couldn’t talk to Asian women… now it’s a buffet!

Made out with a gorgeous Swedish woman.

Two different women, two different nights, both in his bed.

“I averaged 5 solid phone numbers a day.”

He couldn’t approach girls at all. Then he got an instant date with a drop-dead gorgeous woman.

“I can date women easier than ever before.”

Not only can he meet gorgeous women now, but INTERESTING women as well.

Women CHASE him now.

He hadn’t kissed a girl in 14 years. After a few days with us, he ended his dry spell.

He’s a new man.

Now, he can turn women on with EASE.

UPDATE: He’s married.

His whole ENTIRE social life skyrocketed.

Women chase him after 2-3 texts.

No pickup lines. Just an easy-to-use system to meet great women that he can use IMMEDIATELY.

“I got physical with women in less than TWO days.”

In the city of New York, the lives of countless men have been transformed because of our coaches and their 10+ years of experience helping men date women they like.

Our methods are tried and tested and are backed by science.

Men are transformed from the inside out thanks to our approach.

It will be a good transformation because you will be a different person ready and willing to face new possibilities.

So if you want to start dating your dream girl…

The girl you always thought was ‘out of your league’ (but really isn’t)…

Stop wasting time and get live training NOW