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How To Meet Girls During The Day

We have all been there… You see a HOT girl nearby that completely catches you off guard. You didn’t know what to say to her or how to approach her so you probably just walked away. You don’t know how to meet girls during the day.

It sucks.  I know because I’ve been there.

Well, let me show you, step-by-step, how it is done. Approaching women during the day is my favorite time to meet girls because it is SO MUCH EASIER to get dates with HOTTER GIRLS.

While approaching women during the day, use this simple 3-step system.

I call it the “2-Minute Chase Me Method” because when done right, she will become so attracted she will start chasing you.

How To Pick Up Girls During The Day

1. Compliment
2. Qualify
3. Close

Now let’s break it down…

1. Compliment

I know what you are thinking… “I thought I was never supposed to compliment a girl!!!”  Most guys don’t know what they are talking about.  Most guys will tell you to never buy girls drinks either.

Here is the deal.  If you can demonstrate yourself as the a Strong And Confident Man, then you can do whatever you want as most rules won’t apply to you.  When you boldly go up to her and give her a compliment, you demonstrate your confidence.

The purpose of the interaction is to give value, which will build attraction.  You see, high value men don’t need to prove their value so they give value away.

Let’s Talk About the Opening: 

The best way to open is to go up and give her a GENUINE Compliment.  Tell her something that caught your eye.  Why would you want to talk to her… Does she have cool shoes, an awesome tattoo, nice boobs, etc.  If you think she’s cute… tell her she’s cute.

Example: “This is random but you are absolutely (pause) stunning. I had to come say hi. My name is….

She’ll immediately see that you are an honest guy who has a lot of confidence and goes for what ever he wants in life. You’re not beating around the bush like most lame guys.

Be honest, authentic, and confident.  Look her in the eye as you say it.  Speak slowly and articulate.

When you do this she will see you as an honest guy with balls.  She probably has never had anyone do this to her.


2. Qualify

Confident and Attractive men don’t date every girl because they think she is hot.  They qualify them.  So the next step is to have her qualify herself to you.  Ask her something that you would like to know about her.  Be genuine in your screening process.

Example: “So who are you? Tell me something about yourself?”

Have the attitude that she needs to win you over.

If your opening is done right, she will want to qualify herself to you. Once you get her talking, chit-chat with her for a couple minutes.  Play around with her and tease her.


3.  Close

After you have decided that YOU do like this girl, then go for her number.  Do this after you have talked with her and qualified her. Getting a number is easy.  The purpose of getting the number is only because you expect to see her again.  Therefore say something like this…

“Listen, you are pretty cool. We should hang out sometime. Here put your number in my phone.(Hand her your phone)”

Do not ask her for her number.  You are the alpha man and therefore you should expect that she wants to hang out with you.


So now that you have her number, set up a date.  More on that later.

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How To Approach A Girl | 3 Minute Number Close

Watch as Matt Artisan, Head Instructor for The Attractive Man shows you how to approach a girl during the day and get a number under 3 minutes.

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Make sure you pay attention to what he says, his eye contact, his body language, and his attitude.  In another post we will break down exactly what to do so you can get dates too.

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How To Kiss A Girl In 5 Minutes Of Meeting Her!

A student just asked me, “How do I kiss a girl I just met 5 minutes ago?”

Here is what I told him… How to kiss a girl in 5 minutes of meeting her:

Note:  Not all women will let you kiss them in 5 minutes and you may not want to if you are seeking a relationship.  However, if you create so much sexual tension, it will be hard for her to resist. You can also use this at any time.

If you want to kiss a girl as soon as possible, it’s really just all about creating Sexual Attraction from the start. Here is how you do that…

1.  Express your sexual confidence (frame control)

What turns women on?  Sexual confidence.  When you walk up to her, let her feel your power, your masculinity, and your sexuality.

Let her know you see her as a beautiful desirable women… not by telling her, but with your eyes.  This is what we call “The Look of Desire”.  This is much better explained in video or in person and if you have taken our advanced training, you have probably heard us talking about this.

Basically,  communicate with your eyes that you want her.  Have a slight smile that says, “You don’t even know how much sexual pleasure I can give you.”  It is almost as if you hiding a dirty secret from her.  Do this one thing and it will get women to vibe sexually with you.

2.  Make Her feel comfortable

Make her feel comfortable in your conversation and in the way you touch her.

See, what most guys don’t realize is that women WANT you to sexually escalate and they want to be kissed. They just want you to do it in a way that is comfortable for them.

Think about it, if she’s not comfortable holding hands with you then she’s not going to be comfortable kissing you.

So you need to gradually increase the touching in a way that makes her feel comfortable.  For example, touch her arm lightly as you tease her, then grab her hands and comment on her rings, whisper into her ear and get really close so she feels your breathe. Then when you feel her heating up, do what feels natural. If she stops you, no worries, just be cool and start escalating again in a few minutes.

An indirect way to start touching is to start tickling her.  Say, “I bet you’re ticklish.” Then tickle the side of her stomach or if you are sitting next to her, squeeze her thigh in a slow sexual way.

3. Make Your Move Stud

Women like a guy that takes action and makes moves on her. It makes them feel wanted and desired.

If you have set the sexual frame from the beginning and made her comfortable, then she will most likely be open to a kiss.  Here are some steps to make your move

1.  Stare at her lips, slowly and then back at her eyes. This will make her think of kissing you.

2.  Once there is sexual tension, say,  “If you keep staring at me like that, I am going to have to kiss you.”

3.  If she stays in that sexual vibe, then go for it.  She may turn away because it is “too soon.”  No worries, she will be so turned on by the fact that you did go for it.

Let’s do another example of how to kiss close a girl in under 5 minutes, shall we?

Start off by making eye contact with a girl in a bar. Open with, “you can’t just look at me like that without at least saying ‘Hi’.” This sets the frame that SHE is chasing YOU.

Then say “ok, since you like to stare we’re going to have a staring contest right now”. (a fun game).

Then, as you are staring at her, keep moving your head towards her as if you are going to kiss her. At this point, you will either kiss her or she’ll move her head and lose the contest.

This shows her you have balls to kiss her, warms her up for a kiss close and sets the frame that she owes you something.

Have some small talk (ie qualify her and comfort questions) for about a 2 minutes and then start sexually flirting with her.  Then say the line in number 2 and enjoy.

Let me know how this works for you.