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How To Use Social Media To Get Dates

Is having her social media BETTER than getting her number? Are your random messages or comments on Facebook helping you get the girl? Can you meet hot chicks on Instagram even if you’re not Dan Bilzerian? In this video, I’ll show you how to use social media to get dates!

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How To Use Social Media To Get Dates

Facebook, Instagram, Snap chat, Twitter, Badooo… the list goes on and on! Can you REALLY use social media to your advantage to get more dates and make women like you?

Today’s topic is all about how to use social media to get more dates.  

Phone Number VS Social Media

Well, they’re pretty much one in the same nowadays since the popular Social Media platforms Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat all have messaging capabilities.

The benefit of Social Media is that she can see your pictures. That’s right – she can remember how damn sexy you are! She can clearly see your attractive lifestyle (yep, you better show off that Ferrari in every picture… just kidding, don’t do that, that’s just douchey.)

Also, when she sees your embarrassing frat party pics she’ll see that you have friends, so she can safely assume you are not a serial killer or leader of an elite terrorist organization.

Social media can actually be better than a phone number as long as you have a pimped out page. So make sure to post cool pics regularly. Avoid boring pics of that disgusting cheeseburger you just ate, you animal killer you. (Actually, burgers are great, just don’t post snaps of them, okay?)

Social Media Is Also A Great Way To Stay On The Girl’s Radar

She can see what you are up to and get super jealous that you were front row at Justin Beiber. Or that you went to the movies with another girl instead of her.

Whereas through SMS if you want to stay in her mind you have to send her an individual text and only she gets it. It’s a one-off communication and who has time for that these days?

On social media when you post something hundreds even thousands of girls can see it. That’s freakin’ awesome!

Most Girls are also more likely to give out their social media profile over there phone number because they know they can easily block you if you end up being a weird creepy psychopath who sends her a bunch of dick pics. (Stop doing that!) Plus she probably wants more followers so she can pump up her ego and feel better about herself.

You Can Even Use Social Media As A Way To Approach Girls In Clubs

Just say, “Snapchat!” and then ask them for their snap. Every time you post something you can check to see who viewed it. When you see a particular girl has been viewing all of your snaps then send her a message. There’s a great chance she’ll be willing to meet you since she’s always checking out your snaps and is basically your fan.

I personally use Snap chat as a way to interject more fun into the interaction. I just whip out my phone and say let’s take a snap and command everyone in the group to do a silly pose. This is fun and women are likely to comply with a snap that only lasts 24hrs compared to Facebook – which lasts an eternity. And then you have a perfect reason to add her to Snap chat and then just message her later.   

Social Media Can Also Make Women Feel More Connected To You

Think about it, when she’s following you on Social Media, she’ll have more sense of who you are and what you are all about because she’s already seen a bunch of your pics, videos, and posts. She’ll actually feel more comfortable meeting you and she’ll likely feel like she has known you for a while unless you have tons of creepy pics.

I once met a girl and they didn’t speak to her for 4 years because I had a girlfriend at that time. After I broke up with my girlfriend, I sent the girl a message on Facebook and we met up. She told me she’d been following me on Facebook – so she knew all about my travels and adventures for the last 4 years bc she saw my posts. Now if I only had her number, I doubt she would have even remembered me. She probably wouldn’t have been willing to meet up again.

Social Media Is Great Social Proof

How else can you use social media? Well if you have an active profile and a lot of follows then it’s great for social proof. Social proof is when someone’s thoughts and actions become influenced by the thoughts and actions of the masses.

Which basically means if a girl sees that you have a lot of fans and followers who think you’re cool, she will be influenced by the crowd and will also think you’re cool.

As a reminder, this is not about how you build up your Instagram and Facebook page. There are plenty of other resources and videos for that. A reasonable goal is to reach 10 million followers and then you’ll always be surrounded by hot Instagram models that want to be Instagram famous.

What about meeting girls on Social Media?

Well if you have an awesome profile full of traveling, adventure, cool people, professional pictures, etc. then it’s possible that random women will add you and actually message you first. Now if you’re not at that stage of the game yet should you message them?

Well here’s the deal. It doesn’t hurt to randomly message or add a girl out of the blue. However, if you actually want to meet girls online then I recommend a dating app like Tinder or Bumble because those girls are more likely to be single and are actively looking for a date. You just have better odds and it’s just a better way to utilize your time.


By the way, have you ever been in that situation where you see a beautiful girl but you don’t know what to say?

Well, that’s why I created this Free Conversation Cheat Sheet where I break down exactly what to say after “Hi” to make her want you.

You get:

  • My top conversation starters for any situation…
  • Simple techniques to never run out of things to say…
  • A list of my favorite games to play that create a fun-flirty vibe
  • And simple ways to escalate the interaction.
  • And more!

Download it now because you’ll want to keep this handy before you go out.

And if you want us to personally show you how to meet women, click here to check out the live Bootcamp Schedule.

I’m out! Cheers!

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How To Plant The Idea In Her Mind That She’s Going Home With You

Wanna discover yet again how to be attractive to women? Do you know why bringing home a girl you just met is called getting luckyIt’s called that because most guys don’t know what they did differently to bring “this” girl home.

When I first got started on this journey, I remember it was like walking on an Indiana Jones wobbly bridge. Sometimes I would go home alone, frustrated that I spent all that time out with nothing to show for it. Other times, I was having some of the best adventures of my life that made those hours out all worth it.

Even with these amazing nights, there was still a problem.

I didn’t know what I was doing differently with girls I left with compared to the girls that went nowhere. And I didn’t know how to be attractive to women in a way that delivered consistent results.

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Finally, after some reading and research, I figured it out.

I figured out one of the key “techniques” you need to use to help you consistently cross that bridge from a stranger to a lover.

If you’ve been studying the game or going through some of our courses, you know that there are 5 fundamentals of closing.

The overarching theme of these techniques, by the way, is that you’re proactive about the pull.

Most guys get lucky because they talk and talk and talk and then at the end of the night ask the girl, “Want to go to my place?”

Instead, what made my results more consistent was being proactive about bringing a girl home from the moment I started the interaction.

Now, there are a lot of elements that go into getting a girl attracted to you, comfortable with you and then seducing her, but what I want to talk about today is one technique that is very powerful when it comes to proactively bringing a girl home.

Planting The Seed That She Is Going Home With You

The technique I want to talk about today is “Seeding the pull.”

If you don’t know, it’s like the movie Inception; plant the idea in the girls head that you two will be hanging out later.

It’s like when a friend says to you, “After the bar let’s go hang out at my house.”

When you agree, you now have the idea that after the bar you’re heading to your friend’s place.

We want to have the girl in that position. The way to do this is planting the seed early.  I like to do this while getting the logistics.

For example, if I want to know if a girl lives near me, I’ll ask where she’s from. If she lives near me, I’ll plant the idea that we’re hanging out later.

My favorite one is, “Let’s go grab food after this.

When I meet a girl, I’m quick to ask where she’s from and plant the idea, “Let’s get food later.” All this happens within the first 5 minutes. This line works well during the day after an instant date for coffee or trying to bring a girl home from the club.

If you want to know how to be attractive to women in a way that provides consistent results, it’s also crucial that you keep reminding her of that seed you planted. Water it, so it grows.

Once I plant the seed of getting food later, I’ll keep bringing up the topic of food. “What’s your favorite food? Where do you normally go out to eat? My favorite place to go to after this is XYZ. I’m looking forward to going to XYZ after this.

The reason I like to use grabbing food is that usually, it’s a bit tougher to build comfort in a nightclub than if you two were sitting down somewhere. If you’ve been following us or studying the game, you’ll know a girl needs attraction and comfort before seduction, and the game is mainly played in comfort.

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Also, I don’t know about you, but after a night out I’m usually hungry and so is the girl, so I find “grabbing food” is an easier win than trying to go straight to your place. Remember, you want to baby step her to your place meaning you visit a few places along the journey of where you first meet to your place.

Some other ideas are, let’s go grab a drink at XYZ place (like a lounge or bar with little distractions), after party at my place, come see my pet, I got to show you that funny video I mentioned earlier, or any other idea you can come up with.

Repeating makes the idea more real. I’m exaggerating but if she said yes 100 times to grabbing a pizza later, when you finally say, “Let’s go grab a pizza,” she can’t say no. Oh, and the reason I normally go for pizza is that it’s one of those foods that almost everyone likes and you can get it by the slices, so it’s quick, easy and doesn’t get the girl full to the point where she’s passing out.

Planting the seed also makes that transition of moving from one place to the next so much smoother.

If I’m out and want to bring a girl back, it’s so much easier when I plant the seed than what I used to do. What I used to do was not say anything at all about us hanging out later today until the very end.

Only when she was about to leave did I ask, “Do you want to come over?” It’s too random, out of the blue, and you didn’t get a chance to build it up.

When you made it clear that you guys are grabbing food after this and she agreed, then saying, “Let’s grab food” and leading the way is the logical next step. She is going to go with you.

Here’s a simple structure you can use to plant a seed successfully:

Imagine where you are a girl and where you want to be is a bridge. Use what’s on the other side to plant the seed. And that seed will grow into your bridge to get across.

Say I’m at a coffee shop with a girl, and I know I want to bring her to a quick place to grab food near me. I’ll plant the idea that, “Hey, I want to take you to one of my favorite restaurants real quick after our coffee.

I wouldn’t wait to say this until she’s about to leave. I’d say this while we’re waiting for our coffee. And I would say it as early as possible, so I can build up the idea that, “You are going to love this place. They have the coolest….”

Make her want to cross that bridge with you.

When it’s time to go, there’s a smooth transition. You don’t have to be Harry Houdini and pull a trick out of your sleeves trying to convince the girl to go to the next place. You already agreed to that 20 minutes ago.

Your Weekend Mission (If you choose to accept)

Beginners: Reflect on your last 3 approaches. Did you plant any seeds to extend the interaction?

Make at least 5 approaches with the goal of getting an instant date. Try planting the seed to go from the instant date to the next spot.

If you don’t get the instant date, plant the seed for meeting up in the future (good way to transition into getting her number). “Since you can’t grab coffee/drink now, what day are you free?…Alright, let’s grab a coffee then. What’s your number so I can text you?

Advanced: Reflect on your last 3 approaches. Did you plant any seeds to extend the interaction?

Make at least 10 approaches with the goal of getting an instant date. Try planting the seed to go from the instant date to the next spot. If you don’t get the instant date, plant the seed for meeting up in the future (good way to transition into getting her number).

If you do night game, make 5 approaches and try to isolate a girl by baby stepping her to another part of the bar (to grab drinks, get fresh air, hit the dance floor, explore another part of the venue, etc.) Try and “baby step” her back to your place.

Alright, guys, there’s the tip of the week!

Be sure to go out there and start implementing it RIGHT AWAY. Success loves the speed of implementation.

If you like tips like these, then I would highly recommend you check out The Language of Attraction or attend a BOOTCAMP.

Don’t know what The Language of Attraction is?

This is all about the conversation. You’ll know how to attract beautiful women anyplace, anytime, and in any situation.

This is the only program that uses your own unique personality to attract women.

Other “gurus” will try to mold you to be exactly like them…. They’ll have you dress like them and act like them even if that’s not who you really are.

We’ll show you what naturally attracts women.  Click Here For More Details

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Here are a few things we’ll cover:

  • Discover a POWERFUL way to approach, attract, number close, and get dates during the day!
  • Destroy your approach anxiety and spark instant attraction with your body language as you get women to CHASE YOU!
  • Get Tons of infield practice, real-life drills, role-playing, and instant feedback on your interactions to make approaching women completely second nature!

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How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone

Hate it when women want you to be “just friends“?! Don’t worry, we’ll show you how to get out of the friend zone!

Getting out of the friend zone isn’t about a magic one-liner or single move. It’s a careful, gradual, step by step process. I will show you how to make it work.

Download the Escalation Cheat Sheet for more on what to say to take things to the next level! 
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How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone With 3 Simple Steps

You’re friends with a hot girl that you’ve known for many years, and you finally want to make a move, or maybe there’s this one girl in your social circle that treats you like a friend – and you have no idea how to turn around that friendly vibe into something more romantic or sexual.

Let me break it to you: there’s hope! You can turn things around in certain social situations. But first keep in mind that it’s also great to have fun female friends that can also be your wing girls. If she just isn’t into you then she can just be your wing woman out in the club or introduce you to her hot single friends.

Another point before we go into the tactics: sometimes feeling that you’re stuck in the friend zone simply means that you are focusing too much on one particular woman, and the best advice for you is to just go out there and approach new women. It’s often a lot easier to meet new women and establish a flirty, sexual vibe from the start, than trying to turn a friendly vibe that you’ve had for months or years into a romantic vibe.

However, if you decide you DO want to turn that hottie friend of yours into a lover…

Then I’m going to break it down to you step by step.

First, you need to understand what got you there in the first place.

Most guys get themselves in this situation by being too nice, too passive, and because they were afraid to show their desire for her. In other words, they’re not being a fucking man. 

Look, man, if we examine the type of men women instinctively want to sleep with, it’s the guys that own their masculinity. They aren’t ashamed to show their desire for a woman they like. Think about it, most men are attracted to very feminine women right, and in the same context, most women get turned on by very masculine men.

Guys that say and do what they want. Guys that don’t take shit from anyone. Guys that aren’t looking for her approval. And guys that don’t apologize for their romantic interest in a woman they desire.

So what do you need to do differently? The easy answer: you need to move from a friendship vibe to a lover vibe and stop being afraid to be a fucking man that shows his desire for women. However, that doesn’t mean, you should totally transform who you are and how you act around her, overnight. That’s weird.

If the next time you see her you’re being all touchy and flirty, and making all kinds of sexual innuendos, she will most likely be deeply disturbed and think you are creepy. It will feel very forced. You can’t change who you are that quickly. It has to feel natural.

However, if you want to make her feel more sexual attraction towards you; You do need to make changes. But with small steps at a time, over an extended period of time.

Let me be upfront. This will take discipline. But if you’re serious about getting out of the Friend Zone, this is the way to do it:

STEP 1:

Subtly, very casually make a comment about her appearance next time you see her. Something like: “You really look awesome in that dress” It doesn’t seem like much, but it can change how she sees you. Making simple statements like this can make her begin thinking differently about you. Just don’t blow it by confessing that you’ve been in love with her for 5 years. If you want to be really bold, which I do recommend, then when you are alone with her say something like, You know what? You are actually kinda sexy It should seem like this was a new realization for you. You don’t want her to think that you’ve always had a hard-on for her.

STEP 2:

Start touching her more. Start slowly with casual touching and notice how she responds. If she seems to like it, then keep going. I made a video about how to touch, and the link is down in the description. Remember to take away the touch. Don’t let it linger. That’s just creepy. 

STEP 3:

Start slowly adding some sexual tension to the mix. It doesn’t have to be obvious. Just casually turn the conversation to sexual topics, so she begins to see you as a sexual man.  You can ask if she has ever kissed another girl or tell her a crazy story about a girl you slept with. If you’ve already started to establish a flirtier vibethe barrier to make such comments will drop as she’s now used to your more flirty attitude.

Make your move

Casually showing your interest, increasing your touching, and creating sexual tension by talking about sex often can morph the tone of the relationship over time. And if you are getting good indicators that she likes your new flirty demeanor, it’s time to make your move.

I recommend going for a kiss when you are alone with her in a sexually charged environment like a bar, club or party.

The kiss should not just come out of nowhere. Make sure you are flirting with her, and she is being receptive. A great time to do it is while you are dancing.

So start being more flirty over time.  Don’t move too fast or it might scare her.

That’s very important to remember.

If that doesn’t work and she’s still not interested then just move on and start meeting more women. It’s her loss anyway.

Now if you just want to be better with women, we created a “Free Escalation Cheat Sheet” that lists out some of our best ways to spark sexual tension, turn a girl on, and escalate to the bedroom.

It’s filled with Advanced Escalation Techniques that will help you turn a platonic – friendly interaction, into a more sexual – “I want to rip your clothes off” vibe.

This is very useful when you’re talking to a girl but it’s going nowhere.

Download the Escalation Cheat Sheet for more on what to say to take things to the next level! 

And if you want us to show you how to meet women personally, click here to check out the live Bootcamp Schedule.

I’m out! Cheers!

Turn A Girl On: Don’t Forget To ISOLATE

In today’s tip, we’re going to build on last week’s email which was about how to turn a girl on, get physical and escalate.

It’s not enough to know how to get physical. You also have to know WHEN to get physical and how to get there.

That’s why today’s tip of the week is all about isolation.

turn a girl onWe’ll discuss:

  • What is Isolation?
  • Why is isolation important?
  • How to isolate
  • What to do after you’ve isolated

What Is Isolation?

Isolation is when you’re able to get the girl alone so that you can move things forward. During the day, most girls are already alone, so this tip is most useful for the night game.

Why is it important?

It’s easier to physically escalate when it’s the two of you, opposed to when you’re with her group of friends. The reason why is because she doesn’t have the judgment or cockblocking of her friends. Imagine trying to make out with her in front of her group of friends, compared to when it’s just the two of you.

Isolation also helps build compliance momentum.

For example, if you met a girl on the street and ask her to grab a coffee with you. The fact that she said yes creates compliance and makes it easier for her to say yes to future requests.

In sales, this is called a “yes ladder.” One yes makes it easier to get the next.

How Do I Isolate?

An excellent way to isolate is by “baby stepping” the interaction. You’re creating a “yes ladder.” Leading the girl from the start of the interaction all the way to bringing her home. The idea of “baby stepping” is moving her closer and closer to your house one step at a time.

Asking a girl to come home with you within the first 5 minutes of meeting her rarely works. Asking her to get coffee or move to the other side of the bar (away from her friends) is easier.

For example, during the day I like to:

  • Ask a girl to get coffee 
  • Bring her to a park
  • Get some frozen yogurt 
  • And before you know it, we “happen” to be by my place.

If you don’t live in a city, the last step might have to be verbal. “Hey let’s go back to my place so we can continue getting to know each other,” for example.

During the night, isolation is crucial because girls are usually with friends. Here are some of the ways I like to isolate a girl while still in the bar

  • “Let’s go over there where it’s quieter, so we can talk more.”
  • “There’s a place to sit over there…come with me.”
  • “We should grab those chairs while they’re free.”

From there, I like to baby step her closer and closer to my place. My usual routine, once isolated in the bar, is:

  • “Let’s go outside for some fresh air.”
  • “Hey let’s get some food across the street.”
  • “Hey let’s just eat this at my place where I have some drinks.”

Pretty simple.

What To Do After You Isolate?

turn a girl onThis is the part where last week’s email comes in. When isolating the girl (at your place or isolated in the bar), you want to amp up the sexual tension and physicality. Last week’s email talked all about how to escalate physically.

In case you missed it, here’s an escalation ladder I like to use:

  1. When I introduce myself, I hold her hand longer than normal. Is she receptive and already interested or do I have to do more work?
  2. Find out something interesting about her as an excuse to give her a high five
  3. Thumb wrestle her with a little bet (loser buys coffee/beer)
  4. Hug her for winning/losing
  5. Arm to arm escorting (towards cafe/bar to isolate)
  6. Hand holding along the way
  7. Arm around her back/waist pulling her in close to me. Body up against her body.
  8. Kissing on her cheek
  9. Kissing on neck
  10. Making out

If you’re out in public, you can stop at the make out. If you’re home, keep escalating as long as you get the green light. If she gives you a red light, take two steps back and then later try taking one step forward.

Alright, guys, this isn’t everything about the subject, but it’s enough to get started and take action.
Next week, I’ll dive in further about baby stepping and give you a tactic I use to drastically increase the odds of a girl coming home with me. You won’t want to miss that one.

Your Weekend Mission
(If you choose to accept)

Beginners

  1. Reflect on your last 3 approaches. Were you able to go on an instant date? Did you even go for it?
  2. Make at least 5 approaches with the goal of getting an instant date. Try and baby step her from the first instant location (like coffee) to the next (like the park).

Advanced

  1. Reflect on your last 3 approaches. Were you able to go on an instant date? Did you even go for it?
  2. Make at least 10 approaches with the goal of getting an instant date. Try and baby step her from the first instant location (like coffee) all the way back to your place.
  3. If you do night game, make 5 approaches and try to isolate a girl by baby stepping her to another part of the bar (to grab drinks, get fresh air, hit the dance floor, explore another part of the venue, etc.) Try and baby step her back to your place.
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Alright, guys, there’s the tip of the week! 
Be sure to go out there and start implementing it RIGHT AWAY. Success loves the speed of implementation.
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If you like tips like these, then I would highly recommend you check out The Language of Attraction or attend a BOOTCAMP.

Don’t know what The Language of Attraction is?

This is all about the conversation. You’ll know how to attract beautiful women anyplace, anytime, and in any situation.

This is the only program that uses your own unique personality to attract women.

Other “gurus” will try to mold you to be exactly like them…. They’ll have you dress like them and act like them even if that’s not who you really are.

We’ll show you what naturally attracts women.  Click Here For More Details

Interested in a BOOTCAMP?

We’re going to be in Las Vegas, Cancun, New York City, Los Angeles, Miami, Brazil, Argentina, Colombia, Spain, Germany, Sweden, Bulgaria, Cyprus, Thailand, Dubai, India, Australia and that’s us just getting started.

If you’re serious about getting results with women FAST, then this is your ticket.

Here are a few things we’ll cover:

  • Discover a POWERFUL way to approach, attract, number close, and get dates during the day!
  • Destroy your approach anxiety and spark instant attraction with your body language as you get women to CHASE YOU!
  • Get Tons of infield practice, real-life drills, role-playing, and instant feedback on your interactions to make approaching women completely second nature!

Click Here To Find Out More

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Is PORN Bad For You? | The Effects Of Watching Pornography (For Men)

Is porn bad for you?

This is a hot topic right now, and that’s why we decided to do our research on the matter. Here’s what you need to know.

Discover How To Go on Instant Dates With Women Only Minutes After Meeting Them!

Download the Instant Date Breakdown Video here


Is Porn Bad For You?

Look, here’s the deal: Porn isn’t anything remotely new to our society.

Porn had existed way before movies and photos were a thing. Just look at past paintings, statues, and sculptures across different countries, can you count how many of those were naked and provocative?

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The Venus de Milo

Yes, our great ancestors had their version of porn, too. Cave paintings were discovered that depict sexual intercourse in various forms.

Let’s just say one thing led to another – and as technology improved so did man’s way of producing porn. From photos to films, live shows and paid theaters featuring scantily clad to naked women. And, statistically, the most significant spike in porn viewing was when the internet was born.

Porn has been a part of our society for centuries, so now let’s dive into the effects of it. 

Should I love it or should I loathe it?

Porn can both be productive and counterproductive. Porn per se may be viewed as neutral (That is assuming it’s the legal stuff, because mind you illegal is illegal. So count out child-porn and that other crazy stuff) but when you overindulge, that’s when the positive and negative effects grow. When asking “Is porn bad?” you should really be asking “To what extent is porn bad?” Or “Is porn bad for all of us?

This segment will cover our advantages and disadvantages of watching porn.

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Pornography’s POSITIVE effects for Men:

Is porn bad all the time? We men tend to have sexual urges that we just have to let out. That’s normal.

1. It releases pent-up sexual tensions

(The human body was designed to procreate, that’s why we love sex so much! It’s INSTINCT!)

Watching pornography is almost always accompanied by masturbation and ejaculation. The body then resets the urge when “the deed is done” and in fact relieves that urge to have sex. Here’s how this can help.

Married/Taken men: Now, what if your girl/wife is out of the country for a couple of months and you’re the kind of guy who wants to keep loyal? Porn is mostly the release men use to help them take away their sexual urges to keep them from the temptation of going out there and banging another woman while your partner is out hard at work.

Single men: As we said before, porn can help release sexual tension and can be a less risky alternative to hookers

2. Aids in masturbation, which is good for physical health

Psychologically and physically, ejaculation is something the body needs. The phrase “you don’t use it, you lose it” coined by doctors was not invented just to sound fancy, it’s actually true.

Majority of men diagnosed with Prostate Cancer or other related problems were discovered to have an inactive sex life or have not ejaculated frequently enough. There’s an up to 33% decrease in the likelihood of developing such problems for men who have ejaculated at least 21 times in a month, as studies have shown.

Of course, “ejaculation” meaning those from both sex and masturbation.

3. Helps discover preferences

We all have our own preferences, right? 

Porn actually helps men discover their natural sexual fantasies by providing them with a selection to know whether or not a woman’s trait turns them on. Is it Blondes, redheads or brunettes? Like tall or short? Will it be skinny, curvy, or robust? And of course, are you a “tits” or an “ass” kind of guy? Porn will help you discover what type of girl turns you on so you’ll know your preference, so you can find a real-life girlfriend that will be a perfect match for your urges!


Pornography’s NEGATIVE effects for Men:

Porn can be dangerously addictive

Is porn bad all the time? After all the positive effects we’ve mentioned, the negative effects stem from one thing:

PORN ADDICTION.

Terry Crews, one of the Manliest Men I know, (Yes, THE buff Terry Crews who’s just oozing with confidence and machismo) actually suffered from this kind of addiction once.

1. Porn Can Destroy Relationships

Addiction to pornography can cause serious damage to you and the people in your life.

Pornography can cause serious psychological instability as you use porn to get off and satisfy yourself without even thinking about your partner’s needs. Most porn addicts view women as objects and can be selfish through relationship quarrels and obligations.

Porn addiction often leads him to neglect his duties as a Man in exchange for satisfaction with watching porn. A man’s children are often neglected in this situation.

2. It Changes Your Perception

We often forget that many female porn stars are faking orgasms and pleasure. They over exaggerate the scene to stimulate you as much as possible. 

Porn usually deals with actors and actresses, they ACT.

You’ll be surprised as to how many men have complained that their first time having sex was not as they expected.

Porn has wrecked their perception of what sex is. And worst of all, most of them view women as OBJECTS, which both decreases their chances of getting turned on, and offends the women at the same time.

3. It Creates An Unhealthy Obsession

That’s is the scary part. When porn becomes an addiction, just like drugs and alcohol, you’ll never be satisfied with the same dosage over and over. And you’ll be looking for more.

You’ll escalate. And this is harmful.

The same quality of porn will not give you the same pleasure as before – you’ll need to escalate to longer periods, and even more aggressive versions to feel the same way.

It first starts with vanilla porn, then incest, then cheating, then gangbangs, then rape-porn, then masochism, then child-porn, then bestiality. (Perish the thought)

Not getting satisfied and looking for more intense versions is the worst that can happen and can thoroughly damage the psyche – this is deadly both for you and the people around you.

Did you know almost all rapists were porn addicts, too? (Why am I not surprised?)

What I Recommend:

Okay look, overall some porn “here and there” is not bad for you. However, the biggest issue I see with clients is that too much porn and masturbation will diminish your motivation to go out and meet women.

Therefore, I suggest that you don’t watch porn. Limit your self-masturbation to once per week and think of a girl that you know personally in real life. This will keep you motivated to go out and meet women and also keep your perceptions in check.

If you’re unsure if porn is a problem for you, take this test here.


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