5 Tantric sex tips for men

5 Tantric Sex Tips For Men | Drive Her Wild, Last Longer In Bed, & Keep Her Begging For More

Want to be better at sex? Satisfy her in bed every time? Experience full-body orgasms? Last longer in Bed?

Then you’re going to love Tantric sex. It’s a slow form of sex that increases intimacy and creates mind-body connections… that can lead to powerful orgasms. Check out these sex tips on Tantra and tantric sex;

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5 Sex Tips To Drive Her Wild, Last Longer In Bed, & Keep Her Begging For More

Tantric Sex. THIS will set you apart from every man on the planet and make women remember you for the rest of their lives. The term alone can invoke images of sizzling marathon sex sessions and mystical mind-blowing orgasms, but what the hell is it exactly?

Tantric sex is an ancient Hindu practice that’s been going for over 5,000 years, and means ‘the weaving and expansion of energy’. It’s a slow form of sex that’s said to increase intimacy and create a mind-body connection that can lead to powerful orgasms.

And if you can give a woman the best orgasm she’s ever had, then she’ll come back to you for more.

Think of it as intimate, clothing-optional yoga with your partner. Its purpose is enlightenment—and the philosophy transcends the bedroom into all aspects of life. In the Tantric view, sex and orgasm equal spiritual awareness at its peak. And when male energy and female energy join in one sexual union, it’s believed to be the highest point of enlightenment.

Despite all the talk of a too-good-for-words orgasm, that’s actually not the goal of Tantra. Instead, it’s more about being in the moment and riding a wave of sensation and arousal (yours and your partner’s). If you only focus on getting that one massive O at the end, you may miss out on tons of other orgasmic joys” happening in your body along the way.

But yes, you can have extended full body orgasms during tantric sex.

5 Tantric Sex Tips For Men

Eye Contact 

It may sound obvious, but deep eye contact with your partner can make your sexual experiences a lot more intense.

Find a comfortable place to sit so you and your partner can look directly into each other’s eyes. Start with your eyes closed and take a moment to center yourself.

When each of you is ready, open your eyes and gaze into your partner’s eyes. Allow her to really see you as you, in turn, witness her.

For added effect, have your partner straddle you in the Yab Yum position for even deeper intimacy. You can even synchronize your breaths to inhale and exhale in unison. Be careful with this last move though, as it’s deeply powerful and WILL make her feel strong feelings for you. Best to save this for a really special girl.

Breathing & Awareness

To truly enrich your tantric experience, the key is to be fully in the moment. If you’re busy thinking about work or getting some Chipotle, then your touch will feel shallow, and your partner will feel this.

Breathe deeply and slowly from your diaphragm, focusing on touching your partner with your full and undivided consciousness.

Explore Your Senses

Tantra isn’t just used to improve the physicality of sex, it’s about the emotional and sensory experience as well – this means taste, touch, sight, smell, and sound.

It’s long been known that when we lose one of our senses, the others are heightened. Like blind people developing a more acute sense of hearing.

To take advantage of this, create a relaxing, intimate and sensual experience for your partner by blindfolding her and offering a variety of non-visual stimulation.

Try essential oils, cinnamon, or vanilla for the smell. Play some soft music that you know she loves, or feed her juicy strawberries or chocolate. For touch, try caressing her body with bits of silk, feathers or a rose petal.

It might sound a little woo-woo or lengthy, but trust me, she’ll melt right in front of you and make the sex that much better.

The Yab Yum

As we mentioned, one of the key ingredients to soul searching with your partner is looking into her eyes. The Yab Yum position is particularly good for this purpose.

Sit cross-legged and have her climb your lap and sit with her legs around your waist. The intimacy of bare skin hugging bare skin leads to finding the deeper connection that you two have. Start slow and thrust gently but also work on building up the pace.

Have patience young grasshopper, and a prolonged orgasm will reward your efforts.

Full Body Orgasms

Imagine feeling an orgasm not just in your genitals, but all over your body for an extended period of time. Sound too good to be true? Not in Tantra, it isn’t.

One way to learn how to have full body orgasms is to practice reaching the point just before orgasm, then letting it fade a bit. Now build it up again and use your breath and the power of intention to spread the energy through your body. 

Pro tip: clench your PC muscle (the muscle you use when you stop yourself from urinating) and consciously draw up your sexual energy to the top of your head stopping right before the point of orgasm. This will allow you to continue making love while spreading that energy throughout your entire body.

This is a more advanced technique and requires some self-restraint and practice, but when you finally orgasm you should feel ripples of it in different parts of your body.

Tantric sex is a 5 thousand-year-old study, so this is just a sample of what it has to offer. But with these simple steps, you can elevate your sexual life to one that has her craving your Yab Yum day after day.

Happy straddling!

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How to attract women

Learn How to Attract a Girl or Women and be Attractive | The Attractive Man

How do you approach a girl for the first time? What do women find attractive? The answers may surprise you.

From energy polarity to masculine traits, this article will teach you how to attract women effortlessly.

I live in a world foreign to most men – a world where gorgeous women often complain that I’m not giving them enough attention and ask me why I’m too busy for them. The truth is, they are amazing girls and I would love nothing more than to be able to see them as much as they want. But I only have so much time on my hands. Crazy, right?

I’m not complaining. I know a lot of guys dream about having problems like this, and some men go their entire lives never knowing what it’s like to have gorgeous women chasing them, vying for their affection. In fact, many guys are completely lost when it comes to attracting women, not knowing where to begin. Not too long ago, I was that guy myself – though, after everything I’ve learned about women and how much my life has changed as a result, it seems like another lifetime.

This is good news for you. If I was able to learn how to attract women, then so can you. My goal is to help you get there. And by getting there I mean knowing the basics and eventually mastering how to approach women.

This article will offer you a conceptual overview of what it takes to attract gorgeous women into your life consistently. We’re going to start on the woo-woo end of the spectrum by talking about Energy Polarity, and get more concrete as we go. It’s important that you understand the more abstract, esoteric concepts in order to build context for the more actionable tips I’ll give later on in the article.

Let’s dive in.

How To Attract Women

Energy Polarities (Opposites Attract)

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Did you ever play with magnets as a kid? If you did, then you’re familiar with the concept of polarity attraction – even if you didn’t call it by that name. For those of you who aren’t familiar, let me explain:

Magnets have two poles – a positive pole and a negative pole. If you put two of the same type of poles together, they repel each other. But, if you put opposite poles together – one positive pole and one negative one – they will magnetically attract.

This same concept applies to attracting women. Like magnets, humans have energy polarities – masculine and feminine. Unfortunately, masculine traits such as aggression, confidence, and assertiveness are demonized and discouraged by our society and systematically weeded out. This leads to a culture of wimpy, effeminate men who, according to the laws of energy polarity, can only attract masculine, dominant women – not the alluring, feminine women that they truly desire.

Much of attracting the women you actually want in your life comes down to reclaiming and deepening this masculine polarity that is your birthright. This can be a daunting task, as it requires a lot of retraining of your own behavior.However, once you’re rooted in the solid foundations of your masculine energy, not only will you feel amazing – but gorgeous women will flock to your side to bask in the presence of your energy, with almost no effort on your part. In fact, all of the techniques in the world can’t replace the effortless ability to attract women that being rooted in your masculine polarity provides.

Masculine Polarity Traits

So what are these masculine traits that women find so attractive? And how can you go about developing them?

To understand the answers to these questions, it helps to step into the shoes of the women you’ll be seducing. While men are primarily focused on physical attractiveness when it comes to dating – at least, initially – women have an entirely different set of concerns.

Women are much more physically fragile than men, and largely depend on the physical and psychological strength of a man for protecting her and her child. Because of their fragility, they have also developed an ingrained desire to be around males with high social status, as men with higher status have access to more resources such as food, shelter, and allies, and can, therefore, better ensure her survival and that of her child.

If you’re thinking this sounds very caveman-esque, you’re absolutely right – these traits have been hardwired into the female psyche over hundreds of generations of evolution. It’s almost universal (full lesbians excluded), and you’re not going to change it. So the best thing you can do is develop the masculine polarity traits that will trigger women’s deeply ingrained evolutionary bias.

To get a better understanding of what types of behavior masculine polarity traits would include, think about the way Conor McGregor handles himself during MMA press conferences and matches. He comes across as assertive, strong-willed and even aggressive when needed. He’s not timid and doesn’t shy away from calling people on their shit. You get the feeling watching him that he’s confident in his ability to handle himself against all opponents, and wouldn’t hesitate to throw a punch if the situation calls for it.

Obviously, if you want to know how to attract a girl, the last thing you’ll want is to get into is a fistfight. However, when you’re able to project a sense of dominance and grounded confidence that comes from being willing to stand up for yourself in all scenarios, women can’t help but take notice of you.

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Other traits associated with high-status men that are rooted in their masculine polarity include:

  • The ability to provide for and protect a woman
  • Having a network of relationships with other high-status men
  • Walking through life with unflinching confidence and ease
  • Maintaining your cool in all situations
  • Leading those around you
  • Entertaining yourself (doing this shows that you’re relaxed and enjoying yourself)
  • …Hopefully you’re starting to get the idea by now

So we know that the shortcut for how to attract beautiful women is developing high-status, masculine polarity traits. And we know what that looks like in a man. But knowing that information alone is not enough! In order to develop attractive traits, you need to practice these behaviors until they become ingrained into who you are.

That means creating specific, measurable goals, much like improving in any other area or skill set. Do this with the masculine polarity traits, and you’ll be well on your way to attracting more gorgeous women into your life than you could have previously imagined!

High-status Body Language

When you’ve developed the masculine polarity traits, you’ll naturally find yourself expressing these traits through your words and body language, indicating your high status automatically. Conveniently, it also works the other way around – using high-status body language causes you to begin to feel a sense of confidence, dominance, and status within yourself.

Whats the best way to approach a girl? Here are some high-status body language keys to keep in mind:

  • Solid eye contact – High-status men don’t shy away from eye contact. When you meet a woman’s gaze, do so with grounded, calm, laser-like eye contact. You don’t want it to feel creepy or intense, but rather relaxed and comfortable
  • Deliberate movements – Avoid fidgeting, jerking, or sudden movements as those indicate the emotional distress that accompanies low status. Instead, make slow, deliberate movements that project an air of calm confidence
  • Being Non-reactive – In a social interaction, the high-status individual is the one that other are reacting to – not the other way around. Avoid physically reacting to other people. That doesn’t mean you need to ignore them – simply take the time to deliberately respond on your own terms. For instance, while I was typing this, the girl I’m sitting with tapped my shoulder. Rather than turning to cater to her immediately, I took my time to finish writing the paragraph before giving her my attention.

In any and all interactions throughout your day, you can begin to notice whether your body language is high status and dominant, or low status and submissive, and make adjustments accordingly.

Tips to Attract Women Effortlessly

1. Become the Leader of Your Social Circle

Men who are leaders are incredibly attractive to women. The fact that people are willing to follow your lead indicates your status to women, making it much easier for you to meet and attract them.

Becoming the leader of your social circle is simple – it just takes a bit more effort than the average Joe is willing to put in. Start planning events centered around your interests, and invite people to attend. This can be huge epic parties or little get-togethers; it doesn’t really matter. What’s important is that you’re taking the time to lead your social group in a way that makes people feel good about following your plans.

2. Dress Well to Convey Status

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In social interactions, appearance is more important than substance initially. This is because, as much as we like to think of ourselves as fair-minded, humans do judge based on perception. In fact, as famed psychologist Robert Cialdini points out in his book Influence, when you wear a suit, you will automatically be perceived as having higher status and more authority than if you were wearing normal casual clothing.

This is because people imagine men in suits to be more powerful, confident, successful, and so on based on their own preconceived notions. The result? You can cause people to associate these traits with you – whether not you actually possess them – simply by dressing sharply!

3. The Role of Comfort in Attracting Women

While status is the driver for attracting women, it’s not enough to make women feel at ease around you. For that, you’ll need to build comfort.

Comfort is the sense of a physical and emotional connection between you in the girl. It fosters a sense of trust and makes the girl feel safe in your presence. While most guys who are learning how to attract women don’t need to worry about comfort right away, it’s still worth noting its importance. For now, put your focus on developing high-status, attractive traits but know that comfort is an equal part of the good game as well.

4. Developing Attractive, Masculine Traits

To become as attractive as possible, we want to develop high status, masculine polarity and comfort building traits while systematically rooting out all traces of low status and comfort destroying behavior. The way to do this is through repeated trial and error – that is, going out, approaching women, and making incremental improvements.

There will be failure. There will be rejection. If you’re not failing, that means you’re not pushing yourself nearly hard enough. Each failure represents a weakness in your game being healed through practice. The faster you can fail and improve, the sooner you’ll be surrounded by badass, amazing chicks, looking back and thanking your past self for putting in the effort required for greatness. You’ve just been imbued with the knowledge on how to approach a girl.

So get hyped!

For practical advice on where to meet girls so you can practice developing these traits as well as what to say to them, check out our article “How To Meet Women & The Best Places To Meet Girls”.

Now go forth, be fruitful, and multiply.

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How To Talk To Women: How to turn “No” into a “Yes”

Here’s another tip to master how to talk to women! Now, I’m dancing with this beautiful girl, and things start to get heated… So I invite her to grab a bite to eat with me and she says:

“I can’t leave my friends”

Has something like this ever happened to you?

What went wrong?

Usually, when it seems like a girl is totally into you, yet doesn’t commit to that next step, it’s because you didn’t successfully handle her objections. We’ll cover this problem today and you’ll soon discover how to talk to women when they usually say no.

Because of the double standard in our society, most girls will say no to your advances so that they don’t look or feel like a “slut.”

They may want to go with you but often, girls feel they can’t make it too easy for you because of that double standard.

If you think back to when you wanted to bring a girl home, 9 times out of 10 you heard some objection. “I can’t leave because of my friends,” “I work early,” “I don’t want to stay out late,”how far is your place,” and the list goes on.

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The mistake most guys make is they take these objections at face value when in reality, that’s when the game begins.

Very rarely will you get that perfect pull where the girl follows you straight to your place!

Let me ask you a question. If you know that 9 times out of 10, the girl will give you objections, have you prepared an answer beforehand?

If no, then that might be why you’re not getting as many phone numbers, dates and beautiful women in your bed as you really could.


How To Talk To Women: How to turn “No” into a “Yes

The best place to start is by first understanding the mindset of a girl you’re trying to pull. And by pull, I mean leading her to the next location. That could be a nearby coffee shop, bar or your place.

Here are the typical concerns girls have when going somewhere new with a guy they just met:

  • They don’t want to travel very far
  • They don’t want to feel unsafe
  • They don’t want to feel uncomfortable
  • They don’t want to be in a situation where things are awkward 1 on 1
  • They want to make sure that they are going to have fun
  • They don’t want to get stuck at your house

Whatever objection a girl gives you, usually the root lies in one of these concerns.

It’s like when a friend asks you to go somewhere, so you make up a “white lie” to avoid the awkwardness of telling the real reason you don’t want to go.

Rather than a girl saying, “hey I just met you and don’t feel comfortable being alone with you yet,” she’ll say, “oh I can’t leave my friends.

To successfully overcome her objections, you have to answer her root objection, not her surface level objection.

Over time, I figured out how to talk to women because I learned that an objection will almost always come. I make sure to come prepared. I already memorized a few answers to the most common complaints.

Importantly, I also treat objections as “not yet,” opposed to a flat-out “no.”

If you didn’t get a firm no, then assume she just means “not yet.” There have been plenty of times where a girl declines to grab a coffee, but knowing how to talk to her, building more comfort and attraction, she says yes after a couple of minutes.

For example, when she says, “I can’t leave my friends”, it’s not that she physically can’t leave her friends. It’s more likely that she’s not quite comfortable enough to leave with YOU just yet. So you need to know how to talk to women in a way that builds more comfort and/or assures them that you’re coming right back and not one of those guys that’s trying to steal them away the entire night.

This actually happened to me not too long ago, where I took her objection as “not yet”, continued to build attraction and comfort and then when I asked 5 minutes later, she came with me to a quieter part of the bar for us to get to know each other. The funny part is, we never saw her friends again for the rest of the night.

It wasn’t that she couldn’t leave her friends. The truth is, she wasn’t yet comfortable enough with me to leave her friends.

Most guys eject out of the interaction over a “not yet,” type response. You may have missed out on so many girls because of that.

If so, that’s ok. Because all that is about to change.

Because girls always feel the need to give an objection (even if she wants to join you), it’s your job to answer her objections.

One technique I like to use is pre-answering objections.

For example, remember that list of common concerns above?

What I like to do is answer those objections before she even has a chance to mention it.

Let’s take the, “don’t want to travel far” and “uncomfortable one-on-one” root objections.

When I’m bringing a girl to a coffee shop, a place to eat, or my place, I always say something like, “Let’s go grab a coffee. I know a great spot a few blocks away. We’ll grab a quick coffee, and then you can go back on your merry way.”

When I say, “let’s go grab a coffee,” immediately she’s wondering to herself, “how far away is it and how long?”

how to talk to womenThat’s why the secret of how to talk to women in a way that delivers results is to answer their objections before they even have a chance to object.

The best strategy is to answer objections before she has them. The next best option is to be prepared for common objections.

Here’s a list of common objections and how to handle them:

Her:I can’t leave my friends.”

You: “I can’t leave my friends either. A bunch of my friends are here, so I have to come back.”

This is good for the first half of the night when her concern is being gone long, not coming back to see her friends and being stuck 1 on 1 with a guy she just met.  

Her: “I can’t leave my friends.”

You:My friends are here too. We can text our friends my address, and they can meet us there.”

This is good for the second half of the night to assure her it won’t be just 1 on 1.

Her:I have to be up early”

You:What time do you have to be up?….Well, I have to be up at (1 hour earlier) so that’s no excuse (playfully). Just come for a half hour and I’ll kick you out (playfully)”

Her concern here is not being up late so you let her know, hey I’m in the same situation, let’s just hang out for a little.

Her: “What if you kidnap me” (or any variation)

You: “Damn! You have me all figured out already” (playfully)

This is a girl’s polite way to make sure she’s safe and comfortable with you.

Her: “How will I get home?”

You: “I can either send you home in an Uber or you can sleep on the couch and I’ll drive you home in the morning because I’ve been drinking”

This reassures her that she will get home safely (in case she has to leave her ride). The couch part takes off the pressure of any expectations. The drinking part pre answers the objection of why you can’t drive her now

Her: “But we just got here”

You: “We just got here too. And we’re mostly sober. Let’s go drink real quick and come back”

This is for the first half of the night.

Her: “I already have plans to do XYZ after”

You: “Drinking wine with me (or another activity) will be a lot more fun. Come with me instead then you can go do XYZ.”

Remember one of her concerns a girl has is are we going to do something fun or something that she likes. The activity doesn’t have to be anything fancy. I date classy girls so all of them like wine 🙂

Her: Any time-related objection

You: “Don’t worry, we’ll only be a couple minutes.” Or, “we’ll be quick.” Or, “It’s just two minutes.”

For any time-related objection just let her know it won’t be for long. So if it’s coffee, just say there’s a cafe one minute away and we’ll be quick.

Alright, as we discussed, objections aren’t bad! They should be expected. I’ve been studying some Jordan Belfort recently (Wolf of Wall Street) and he emphasizes that a sale doesn’t begin until the first objection. Anyone can pitch the sale. The skill comes in your ability to overcome a person’s objections.

Also, remember that objections are really smoke screens for their real concerns. Usually, the root of a girl’s objection will be one of the real concerns I listed above.

Next time you get an objection, try to understand what her real objection is and get to answer that. If you answer her superficial objection but not the real one, she’ll just keep bringing up one objection after another.

Your Weekend Mission (If you choose to accept)

Beginners:

  1. Reflect on your last 3 approaches. What objections did you hear? Write down 2 good possible responses.
  2. Do at least 5 approaches with the goal of getting an instant date.
    • As soon as you can, write down the objection, what you think the root objection might be, and 2 answers you can use next time
    • Bonus if you can figure out how to include pre-answering her objections for next time

Advanced:

  1. Reflect on your last 5 approaches. What objections did you hear? Write down 2 good possible responses.
  2. Do at least 10 approaches with the goal of getting an instant date. Try to push the interaction as far as you can, baby-stepping her closer and closer to your place.
    • As soon as you can, write down the objection, what you think the root objection might be, and 2 answers you can use next time
    • Bonus if you can figure out how to include pre-answering her objections for next time

Alright, guys, there’s the tip of the week!

Be sure to go out there and start implementing it RIGHT AWAY. Success loves the speed of implementation.


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How to meet women, where to meet women

Learn How to Meet Girls or Women | The Attractive Man

Want to meet hotter girls? If you’re looking to discover how to meet women, then the “CQC System” will teach you how to meet women wherever you go! Discover the best places to meet new girls, too. So you can gain access to the most beautiful women in your city today.

Where and how to meet girls… How to meet single women… you’ve come to the right place. And I’m glad you’re here because learning these skills opens so many doors for you. When you know where to find the girls you desire and what to say to them to make them yours, you reclaim the power to build the dating life of your dreams.

No longer will your dating and social life be left to the mercy of chance, and you’ll never need to be stuck at home on a Friday night feeling like you’re the only one missing out on the fun. Instead, you’ll be the center of it all – watching your relationships flourish as your life fills with more fun and adventure than ever before.

In this article, we’ll start by covering a simple way to approach and meet girls, known as the CQC System. After that, you’ll learn the best places to meet the girls you’re looking for, as well as, how to tailor your approach in those settings.


How to Meet Women Using the C.Q.C. System

The CQC system is a way to quickly gain attraction and investment from any beautiful girl you approach. CQC stands for compliment, qualify, close, and I can’t tell you how many girls I’ve dated or had one night stands with as a result of using these 3 simple steps in my game.

Here’s how it works:

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Compliment When first approaching a girl, give her a compliment on something about her style, appearance, or vibe. This lets her know immediately what your intentions are, which makes getting the number easier.

For example, you might say, “Hey, this is super random… But I wanted to come let you know… You’re absolutely adorable!”

Instead of complimenting her directly, you could also imply the compliment, like so:

Listen, I saw you here and I had to come over and meet you. Hi, I’m [Your Name]”.

Qualify – Now that you’ve given her a bit of your interest, it’s time to take a step back and make her prove to you that she’s worthy of your continued attention.

You can do this by qualifying her. This will get her to start chasing you, which increases your value in her eyes and serves to build attraction.

Some example qualifiers include, “tell me something interesting about yourself,” or “what’s something you’re passionate about?”

Once she answers, you can reward her by letting her know you appreciate her answer, or by relating to the topic with your own experiences.

Then, you can rinse and repeat the qualification process in order to continue finding out more about her. A strong mental frame to come from with qualifying is, “You seem like you could be cool, but I’m not too sure about you yet.” When she detects this vibe from you, she’ll naturally want to start proving herself to you.

Close – Once she’s investing in the interaction and qualifying herself to you, you can take the interaction to the next level by closing her on an instant date. This is when you go together from the place you met to a second location, such as a coffee or ice cream shop. A simple way to transition into an instant date is to say something like, “My favorite ice cream shop is right around the corner, I was about to grab a cone. Come with.”

If she’s unable to go on an instant date for whatever reason, you can simply set up a date instead and get her phone number.

The CQC system is enough to get you started meeting girls, get you dates, and even get you laid. That being said, it’s just the tip of the iceberg as far as attraction techniques go. For more high-level information on attracting women, check out our article “How to Talk to Girls & Spark Attraction”

Where to Meet Women

I’ve armed you with the CQC system, which will allow you to consistently approach and attract women. But just as important is your venue selection. Let’s go over the four best places to meet women, as well as how you should tailor your game in each setting for best results.

Places to meet women During The Daytime

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The daytime provides you with a low-pressure, low-competition environment in which you and the girls you approach can communicate clearly and effectively. The best way to meet women can be during the daytime! It’s ideal for practicing your pickup skills, especially your verbal game.

When meeting girls during the day, it’s important to give plenty of physical space at first, since women walking around in the daytime aren’t expecting to be approached. If you catch her off guard and scare her, you could easily derail the interaction.

Opening direct during day game works well because it cuts to the chase in a way that lets her know what you’re there for, and it makes closing faster and easier later on.

Since the daytime, for the most part, is a non-threatening, non-sexual environment, day game offers the unique opportunity to easily take girls you meet on instant dates. Definitely, make it a goal to turn each good day game interaction into an instant date. Who knows? You might end up pulling her home.

Ideal day game locations include:

The Beach – Sunny beaches are loaded with beautiful women in bikinis getting their tan. The thing is that most guys are way too intimidated to approach a girl in a bikini – so by approaching her, you’ll stand out. Here’s a video of meeting girls at the beach.

The Park – I know of a girl that said, “I’d really love a guy to approach me while I am running.” This was a surprise to me.  But yes, if she likes to run, she’d also like to meet a guy that likes to run. So you runners know what to do…
However, at popular parks, you’ll find women doing all sorts of things. They’re all fair game.

Shopping Malls – If you like a girl that dresses nice, then you can be sure she frequents malls. The best times are Saturday mornings.

The Gym – Hot women usually work out so find the gym where all the girls attend. Keep in mind at the gym they are not there to chit chat so keep it short and sweet.

Crowded Coffee Shops – For some reason, hot women love Starbucks. It’s kind of a trend.
Do you like to read or work on your laptop?

Well, head over to a popular coffee shop, hang out for a couple hours, sit where all the people pass by, and wait until you see a lady you’d like to meet. If she’s busy reading or working, make sure to acknowledge what she’s doing, “Hey, I see you’re reading, but I wanted to come over real quick and say ‘hi.”

Health Food Store – Do you buy groceries? Well, she probably does too, especially if she is health conscious. Try Whole Foods.

The Dog Park – Have a dog? Then go here. Approaching her will be much easier because you immediately have something in common.

Cooking Class – Yup, most cooking classes are FILLED with ONLY women. The best case scenario is when women outnumber men because they’ll fight over you.

Places To Meet Women At Night

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My second recommendation for improving your pickup skills while meeting some badass chicks is to do night game. Here’s how to meet girls at night!

If day game is gaming on easy mode, the night game is medium to hard. But, the rewards can be well worth it; some of the hottest girls habitually go to nighttime venues to drink and have fun, and a lot of them are looking to get laid. Even better, the more high-pressure, loud, and the intense nature of night game environments will push you out of your comfort zone, developing your pickup skills and hardening you as a man.

During night game, you’ll want to ramp up your energy. Speaking louder and being more animated with your gestures is a prerequisite for simply being understood in most night game environments, let alone holding the girl’s attention.

Another important aspect of a night game is being able to efficiently handle logistics. This means identifying any obstacles to bringing the girl home – such as her being with her friends or being the designated driver – and set up a plan in advance for how you’ll handle those obstacles. You’ll also need to account for getting her out of the venue and to a second location such as an after-hours spot or your place, so you can keep the party going.

Ideal night game locations include:

Fashion Shows – This might seem obvious, however, you shouldn’t primarily hit on the runway models. You should focus your attention on the girls in the audience.
There are lots of beautiful women that appreciate fashion and go to observe. Strike up a conversation after the show ends.

Music Festivals or Concerts – If you love music, then this is your spot. Large music festivals have TONS of women and they are all looking to have fun. To win the girl over, focus on having fun.

Happy Hour/Trivia Night – This one is for you guys that enjoy adult beverages. Happy hours in every city are crawling with young women. At happy hour, she’ll typically be in a group of girls so you can do the standard direct approach.

How To Meet Women Using Social Media & Dating Apps

Social media and dating apps can be an effective way to meet girls, and having a solid profile shaves off a lot of effort in terms of both comfort and attraction building. Messaging girls on social media can be a lot lower pressure than meeting girls in person.

This is a pro and a con, because, while it lowers the barrier to meeting hot girls, it also fails to develop the confidence that going out and facing rejection and success in person can bring. Because of this, I recommend using social media & dating apps as a supplementary way to meet girls and spend most of your time doing day game and night game until you’re experiencing consistent results. It shouldn’t be your main focus when trying to master how to meet beautiful women. Rather, use it as an effective tool.

Another consideration when it comes to online dating is that, since girls can’t pick up your vibe over the internet, they’re more likely to judge you based on your looks alone. This is good news for classically good looking guys but puts everyone else at a disadvantage. If you’re not a traditionally good looking guy, you’d better have some awesome pictures – or just skip online dating and go meet girls in person.

The best way to set yourself up for success meeting girls on social media and dating apps is to put effort into taking awesome pictures. Pictures showing you having fun in high-status social settings or doing cool activities go along way to building attraction. Pictures of family, pets, or of you volunteering will help her see you as a down to Earth, well-rounded guy.

How To Meet Women Using Your Social Circle

As you go out more and continue meeting people, you’ll naturally begin making more friends. Some of these friends will just be cool guys and girls, while others will have awesome social networks that you can leverage to your advantage. Try setting up a weekly event – such as a sushi and sake night or a weekly table at a club – and inviting all the cool people you’ve been meeting. Have each person bring a friend and watch how fast your social circle grows.

Why is your Social Circle a factor in how to meet new girls? Social circle game is awesome because it’s low pressure, can give you access to super hot girls and cool events over time, and it puts you in control of the situation. Another benefit of social circle game is that it often takes little or no “game” in order to pull and close.

Some guys get stuffy once in a social circle because now they feel the stakes are higher if something awkward happens. But the reason we build social circles in the first place is to get the results with girls that we’re after! Just let loose, have fun, and lead the girls you’re with through a fun and exciting experience that winds up back at your front door.

Now that you have the CQC System at your disposal, it’s time to put it into action! Check out some day game and night game venues in your area and start testing out the techniques. Remember: the sooner you put the material into action, the sooner you’ll start seeing results.

For a more technically comprehensive guide on the attraction process, check out our article “How to Talk to Girls & Spark Attraction”