how to touch a woman

How to Touch a Woman | 10 Ways to Touch Without Creeping Her Out

Asking yourself How to touch a woman nowadays? There are TONS of ways to touch her. But do you know how to touch a woman the RIGHT WAY?

Guys are oftentimes scared s^&*less when it comes to touching women. One small mistake and BOOM – no more attraction or worse..A slap to the face.

That is why the team, especially Matt, is dedicating our next few videos to help teach guys how to touch a girl. We’ll cover the proper ways of touching a woman. How to touch her to turn her on, how to touch her without getting creepy, how to touch her like a MAN..

The answers to your “how do I touch her?” are found here – Matt explains the different ways to touch a girl, and the different kinds of touch during the interaction:

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HOW TO TOUCH A WOMAN
10 Ways to Touch a Woman without Creeping Her Out

Here are 10 ways to touch a girl starting from the more casual platonic touching and moving up to more intimate forms of touch because just like any form of escalation, you need to start small and increase the escalation over time as she feels more and more comfortable with you:

10. GREETING and SAYING GOODBYE

Handshake – FIRM, STRONG. Not too much, remember to be dominant without being domineering. You want her to feel safe and secure, not like someone who can hurt her. (Don’t crush her hand)

Kiss on the cheek – Depending on the culture, a kiss on the cheek is quite a common greeting. To other countries, its already an intimate gesture. Most of the time when I say goodbye I give a nice kiss on the cheek (that’s if we weren’t smooching already if the date went well)

Hug – When you meet her for a date always hug even if you met online. No hovering hand, okay? A nice bear hug, or if that’s too much, even a side hug works great.

9. CONVERSATION

Using your hands as you talk and touching her arm, shoulder or hand to emphasize a point. Example: “And you won’t believe what happened next” as you touch her arm for emphasis. Touch her waist or lower back at a loud club, which is a very sensual spot of her body, as you lean in to tell her something.

8. UNINTENTIONAL

Examples of situations where Unintentional Touch can happen are:

Standing near each other and your arms are touching

Sitting and your legs are touching 

Being close to each other

Can happen while walking

So if you are looking for a dating location, like a dinner or lunch date – Pick a venue with couches where your legs can touch

7. INQUIRING

Touch her hair, nails, or something she’s wearing and make a comment about it. Example: “Wow those are some interesting nails” as you hold her hands and examine them. Complementing her figure works as well, just like how women use “have you been working out?” as an excuse to touch your biceps. You can say the same line as you touch her abs.Wow, you are so fit” “Flex your arm Make sure she has a flat stomach before you do this. Pinching her belly flab won’t be such a turn on.

6. CORRECTING

Fix something about her like her clothing, hair or posture. Example:Hold on let me fix your shirt. Okay there, much better.

5. PLAYFUL

If you are at a bar or on a date you can play a Fun game-like thumb wrestling or slap hands. At bars it’s all about being playful. 

4. REWARDING

When she does or says something you like, simply reward her with a hug, high-five or kiss. Example: “Nice, high-five!” I know it seems childish but that’s the point. Who doesn’t want to be a little childish every now and then?

3. LEADING

While leading her from one place to the next you can hold her hand, go arm-in-arm or place your hand on her lower back.

2. MASSAGE

Hand massage 

Full massage (learn some techniques; take a class)

1. DIRECT

Where she just knows that you are really attracted to her so you make your move. You typically need a higher level of attraction and compliance for this to work.


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Also, I would like to thank Life Coach Path for the great work they did organizing my recent interview for the National Coaching academy. Keep up the great work guys!

Matt Artisan
Intl. Dating Coach & Founder @ The Attractive Man LLC
Matt Artisan is considered one of the World’s Top Dating & Attraction Coaches.

For the last 5 years Matt has personally conducted Live Trainings and Workshops in over 36 countries, helping thousands of men all of the world build confidence and succeed with women.

He has been interviewed by ABC and featured on MTV.
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