Sexual tension is the key to seduction.
Knowing how to properly utilize sexual tension is like harnessing a super power that will drive a women crazy with overwhelming desire and makes her obsess over you. That’s why it is crucial that you use this power only for good.
The key to creating sexual tension is in the following 3 elements:
The Look: A strong seductive gaze that subcommunicates “I will give you the utmost sexual satisfaction…if you play your cards right,” will instantly turn her on.
Tonality: Talking in a slow, low tone can put someone into a hypnotic state. Amp up the sexual tension even more by using…..wait for it…..long drawn out pauses.
Showing Your Desire: Most “nice guys” are afraid to convey their desire for a woman. But, women instinctually crave to be desired by a powerful, confident man. Demonstrating your desire towards her in a non-needy manner is key.
Watch as Leonardo DiCaprio uses these 3 core components of sexual tension to seduce the cigarette girl in this scene from the movie The Aviator:
Could you feel the sexual tension?
Now, I understand that is a movie, however, what he just did right there works. He is conveying strong sexual confidence. A guy that is timid or nervous around women would not have been able to do that.
Practice these elements of sexual tension. We will revisit this topic at another time. Now go out and seduce some beautiful women. They want it anyways…